Showing posts with label resources. Show all posts
Showing posts with label resources. Show all posts

10 November 2008

Blog in the Bog

Sorry about letting this blog get bogged by only updating once a month. Nothing and I mean nothing happened during the month of October. As you know we passed NOC but are now waiting for our case to work its way through the court system. Nothing happens in October as there are 13 high festivals/holidays in October. So we continue to get ourselves prepped for our now 2 ½ year old. I have been looking at hotels, racks and B&B. One chain is The Ginger. It reminds me of dorm room living. Maybe a little bigger in square footage but not much. The rooms have a flat screen tv, a bed, a small counter to write on and a shower with toilet – no bathtub. Compared to other hotels this Spartan one is only about $60 a night where others are about $150 a night. Unfortunately this hotel chain is not in all the cities we will be visiting. The next “cheaper” place is the B&B. It is run by an engineer and Psychologist in Delhi. As a bonus it is possible to arrange evening meals in addition to breakfast.



Phone Home

So once we are in country how do we communicate with the folks back home or possibly some of our contacts in India? Obvious solution is to get a throw away phone while there. Doesn't help much if mom and dad want to call to see how things are going and to say hi to their new grandchild. So how about re-chipping your current cell? Well to do that you need to crack the cell to let it accept other company chips. Oh and you need to make sure your phone will work in the country you are going to something about GSM and broadcast frequencies. For the provider we will use in country you need a phone capable of GSM 900/ 1800/ 1900 or a GSM 850/ 900/ 1800/ 1900 Suffice it to say google will be your friend. If you decide to crack your phone, also known as unlock, on your own be careful because if you choose the wrong program you could turn it into a brick.


So AT&T doesn't like to use the word crack they call it subsidy password. When you take out your chip and put in someone else's it will ask for a password. Essentially it unlocks the phone so that it will recognize another network. The crack software does it by recoding the internal program of the phone and makes it universal to accept other chips. The password method keeps the same program that came with the phone. Since I am somewhat phone unsavy this is the method I took. Since we have been with the same provider for a year or so all it took was a 10 minute phone call. The password that the company gives you is specific to a single phone. Now to find a chip and plan for India


Finding a provider and plan is not too messy – google again. There are a few providers that I found and as usual the glom around high population locales. The one we are going to use will only work in Deli which is ok. http://www.roamsimple.com/products/Roam-Simple-India-SIM-Card.aspx use the Idea network. Initial outlay is $19 and calls are at 30 cents minute when you are done you return the chip. The calls are cheaper at http://www.cellularabroad.com/SIMcards.php which uses AirTel but the cost of the chip is over $80 – you keep the chip.



Schlep a PC?

Not sure yet one. All our documents have been scanned in and are available to print and are also on a flash drive. There are a bunch of monster laptops out there. Space and weight are killers whn\en it comes to laptops. MSI mobile has a 10 inch laptop called the wind. It has built in Wi-Fi b/g/n blue tooth and a camera too boot. Might be the ticket. Who uses pen and paper anymore? Could try a blackberry or cousin of the bb but that would mean another learning curve to tackle. See more at http://www.msimobile.com/nblist.aspx?screen=10.0



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Treats

Our suitcase is filling up with clothes for the children at the orphanage – gotta make sure we don't low the weight limitations. Did a Costco run to get toothpaste but the tooth brushes are too costly. The parental unit gave us a hook-up for a dental supply house that will be able to set us up with brushes for about 50 cents or less a piece. We still need to find a site for band aids and “neosporin”.



Lose your referral?

One of the adopting parents created a forum that is limited to those of us adopting from our agency. Today I saw an note that one of the parents lost their referral. Unfortunately they did not give any detail but it happened sometime after they accepted the referral. This could mean that they sent in their acceptance form, you get this after you say yes to a particular child. That means that it either got kicked back during the NOC, Court hearing, or something changed in their home study that adversely affected their status. Rather sobering news.


je

20 April 2008

Books for Children

Well The last blog was finding resources on how to adopt and some the physical and emotional problems that may come with your child. Sorry about the typo MS Word had no problem with the title of the last book How To get Your Kid To east… It should have been Eat. In case you couldn't tell I suck at this blog stuff. I am trying to get it to use a particular font – sometimes it works lately it doesn't. One particular irk is the fact that I use 2 spaces between sentences – It seems as though that is no longer the norm. Then lists are a total baffle. Let alone getting things into bold underline and what have you. Someone said remember when we used 5 ¼ floppies and WordStar fit on one disk and there was room for a few letters too. Well this is somewhat similar to that. Great I thought we have gotten past 1985 writing where part of the writing was coding.

So much for that tangent. Here are a few books that our daughter has been reading. By the way as soon as we knew we were adopting we let her know that she was getting a sister from India and giving her a name. For privacy reasons I have purposely not used any names so I make up another one here… In early December our daughter said "Susan is coming soon". She really is ready for her sister.

Name/Author/ISBN

I'm a Big Sister /Joanna Cole / 0-688-14509-4

Adoption Is For Always / Linda Walvoord Girard / 0-8075-0185-9

We Belong Together / Todd Parr / 0-316-01688-3

I Love You Like Crazy Cakes / Rose Lewis / 0-316-52538-3

je

19 January 2008

Resources we researched

In 2004 we started looking at Domestic Adoption

Here are some links that we used:

http://dcfs.co.la.ca.us California Department of Children & Family Services

http://www.nefe.org/ National Endowment for Financial Education search for adoption

http://www.adopt.org/ National Adoption Organization

http://www.cacfs.org/ California Alliance of Child and Family Services hit the links on this site

http://www.babycenter.com/ again search the word adoption

http://www.hfs.org/ Holy Family Services Adoption & Foster Care

In April 2006 we started hitting for International INDIA adoption

I highly recommend spending some time on this first site. It is not a complete list but it is a very good starting point. In May 2007 the links after the first one were contacted by one method or another – phone, email, visit if local. A comment about Dillon. Although we did not use them they are one of the few agencies that listed on their site names and email addresses of clients that have adopted. This is very rare and in my book shows integrity. Some agencies are reluctant to do this. They get high marks for doing it and the families get high marks for saying yes this is an agency that we would recommend. Another agency was International family Services who were willing to spend time talking and answering our questions without any $$. Some agencies won't talk without some payola. yeah we are taking their time but then again we are making a life changing investment and this is something that you want to do fully armed with information. Nothing worse than getting part way into the process and then deciding the agency you choose is really not working for you. o they too get very high marks in our book.

Other than the first site these are listed in no particular order

http://www.myadoptionlinks.com/

http://travel.state.gov/family/adoption/info/info_457.html US Dept of State

http://www.dillonadopt.com/

http://www.lovebasket.org

http://www.childrenshopeint.org

http://www.wacap.org

http://www.ifservices.org/

http://www.baljagat.org

http://www.ichild.org

http://india.adoption.com

http://www.ftia.org/india a link has Hindi phrases which may help

http://www.adoptionfriendlyworkplace.org lists where you should be working

http://www.adoptionattorneys.org domestic/international this is the professional org in DC

http://www.angelfire.com/journal/adoptionhelp/adopthelp.html