26 January 2008

Financial Help

This list was given to us by an agency unsolicited, so to speak, they just gave it to us in June 2007. I don't think it is as extensive as the "angelfire" web site that I linked you to earlier.

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Adoption Financial Assistance List

www.oxfordadoption.com They do 0% interest loans for 3 years, then 3% for 3 and then 6% for 3 and you can pay it off anytime without penalties. Oxford Adoption Foundation, Inc. provides low interest loans for families. It is a nonprofit charitable foundation formed in 2003. They limit the loan to a maximum of $10,000 (typically $5,000 per adopted child). Their typical loan is 0% for the first three years; 3% interested for the next three years; and 6% interest for the remaining three years, thereby creating a nine year loan. The loan can be paid at any time, either in part or in full. There are no prepayment penalties.

Adopt$hare:

www.adoptshare.org Adopt$hare, 17662 Highway 55, Sterrett, AL 35147. Tammy & Tim Spence

JSW Foundation

Grants of $2,000 or more awarded quarterly on the basis of need. Preference is given to childless couples with an income under $35,000. One grant awarded quarterly. Average grant amount is $3,000, but can go as high as $5,000. 127 E. Main St., Port Washington, WI 53074. For an application, Contact: Eugene T. Wyka, (262) 268-1386. www.jsw-adoption.org.

Northwest Airlines Special Delivery Program:

Significant fare discounts for international adoptions. Now they can fly right into your arms. Northwest Airlines and KLM Royal Dutch Airlines want to help you and your new family member off to a flying start. We're offering Special DeliverySM fares to families adopting children from any of our over 100 international destinations throughout Asia, Africa, Europe, India and the Middle East. When you're going to experience the joy of receiving your child, KLM/Northwest Airlines' Special Delivery is there for you. When you have your travel dates and are ready to make a reservation, please call KLM/Northwest International adoption fare specialists at 1-800-322-4162 Mon-Fri 7:30am - 7:30pm CST or visit www.nwa.com/features/adopt

Rainbow Kids:

www.rainbowkids.com

National Adoption Information Clearinghouse (NAIC):

www.calib.com/naic/parents/finan.htm. 1-888-251-0075

India Parenting:

www.indiaparenting.com

Feng LiLi:

(Request Application) Meet quarterly or on demand, when necessary to review applications. Feng LiLi, 180 Laurel Avenue, Forest, IL 60045, (847) 482-0500.

Ibsen Adoption Network:

(WA State residents only) Meets quarterly to select applications for small grants of $1,000 for waiting children. Contact Person: Marilyn Bribane. Ibsen Adoption Network, 2730 French Road NW, Olympia, WA 98502, (360) 866-7036. Fax: (360) 866-7059.

National Adoption Foundation:

NAF has established a $9 million revolving loan bank to provide unsecured loans to adoptive families. Your payments and interest then help other adoptive parents. Also offers fixed-rate MBNA Home Equity Loans. For more information about an MBNA Home Equity Line of Credit or loan, contact your MBNA representative by calling Toll-free 1-800-841-1982 (use code AAAP). Both loan programs are financed through MBNA. The foundation has a limited program to provide grants, usually in the $2,500 range, to assist families with adoption costs. You can call the foundation to request that an application packet be sent to you. For grant information, call: (203) 791-3811. For loan information through the National Adoption Foundation, call MBNA bank at: 1-800-448-7061.

The National Adoption Foundation, 100 Mill Plain Road, Danbury, CT 06811

Children of the World:

27 E. Hillvale Rd, Syosset, NY 11791

International Adoption Assistance Foundation, Inc. (Formerly known as IAAF):

6420 Tokeneak Trail, Mobile, AL 36695-2940. Contact: Donald L. Parker or Linda J. Bushy, Directors.

God's Grace Adoption Ministry:

Offering Grants and Loans. Call (209) 572-4539 for more information. God's Grace Adoption Ministry, P.O. Box 4, Modesto, CA 95353.

Bright Futures Foundation:

Offers small grants. Contact: Jill Tate, Executive Director. E-mail: bfadopt@hotmail.com. www.homestead.com/brightfutures.

A Child Waits:

Loans are given for International Adoption (7 % interest). Phone: (413) 499-3992, Fax: (413) 499-2338. 1136 Barker Rd, Pittsfield, MA 01201. www.achildwaits.org.

Military Adoption Reimbursement Program:

Military non-recurring program is a one-time subsidy program for full-time military personnel. Adopting couples can receive up to $2,000 reimbursement on adoption expenses for one child or $5,000 for siblings. Eligible personnel should complete DD Form 2673 (Reimbursement For Adoption Expense). See Defense Finances and Accounting Service Instruction 1341.

The Dave Thomas Foundation For Adoption Foundation:

Founded in 1992 by Dave Thomas, founder of Wendy's Old Fashioned Hamburger Restaurants. The Foundations 3 goals: 1) Educate Americans about the benefits of adoption. 2) Make adoption more affordable by helping the public and private sectors initiate innovate programs. 3) Cut red tape from the process. For more information contact: Dave Thomas Foundation For Adoption in Columbus, OH. At (614) 764-3009.

United Way International

Provides assistance for costs of travel for children adopted with illness needing immediate medical attention. Applications selectively considered and must be supported with a doctor's statement.

United Way International; Attn: Melissa Guerra; 701 N. Fairfax St.; Alexandria, VA 22314. (703) 519-0092

Slavic Humanitarian Association, Inc. (SHA)

All families adopting from Russia make donations in cash to the orphanage through their agency. If their agency does not have a Tax Exempt status and does not make special arrangements for their families to make that donation tax deductible, families cannot deduct this money in taxes. SHA can help families in this matter. SHA is a tax-exempt public service organization that distributes its donations to Russian Dept. Of Education, orphanages, hospitals, etc. If you make your donation through SHA, it becomes tax deductible. For information, contact: SHA staff at: (616) 457-6537. E-mail address: IAAInc@aol.com

The National Adoption Center in Philadelphia

This organization has a program entitled Adoption and The Workplace, which provides services and materials to employers desiring to address the work/life issues of employees who adopt. For a list of corporations who give grants for adoption, contact: The National Adoption Center in Philadelphia; 1500 Walnut St. Suite 701; Philadelphia, PA 19102; (215) 735-9988. Fax: 215-735-9410. E-mail address: nac@adopt.org. www.adopt.org

Employer Benefits:

Many employers provide a range of benefits for families who adopt (including paid or unpaid leave when a child arrives in the home, reimbursement of some portion of adoption expenses, assistance with adoption information and referral services, etc.) Corporate human resource departments will provide employees with information about benefits available, if any.

Adoption Benefits: Employers as Partners in Family Building: www.calib.com/naic/factsheets/benefits.htm.

For a list of Employers Offering Adoption Benefits, go to: www.calib.com/naic/factsheets/benefit2.htm.

The National Adoption Center publishes the Guide For Employee Benefits. Contact them at: (215) 735-9988 or 1-800-TO-ADOPT. www.adopt.org. If your employer does not offer incentive programs for adoption, you can call 1-800-TO-ADOPT for Materials on how to get things started.

State Subsidy for Special Needs Children

Some states provide a subsidy for special needs children. The definition for 'special needs' can be very broad. For example, in South Carolina, adoptive parents are receiving a $1,500 subsidy for children simply because there is no information about the birth father. Contact the State Department of Social Services where you live.

Capital One

Offering a credit card with a limit of up to $20,000 at a fixed rate of 9.9% over the long term (not just an introductory rate). www.222.capitalone.com

Adoption Tax Credit

The government has recently increased the adoption tax credit; this is not a deduction but a tax credit. This credit reduces the tax burden dollar for dollar of adoption related expenses. For more information call you tax person or see www.irs.ustreas.gov/forms_pubs/forms.html You should also inquire about similar credits offered by state and municipal governments. If your tax bill is smaller than the credit, the unused portion of the credit may be carried forward for up to five years. Tax Benefits For Adoption (guideline pamphlet), Publication # 968. Call IRS to order at: 1-800-829-3676. www.irs.ustreas.gov

"How To Make Adoption An Affordable Option"

This is a comprehensive booklet, published by the National Endowment for Financial Education. Available free-of-charge from the: Consumer Information Center, Pueblo, CO 81009, (719) 948-4000 Ask for Item # 602-E. Booklet available on Internet site also: www.nefe.org

Raising Money Through Other Sources

Look into Home Equity Loans or Refinance. Some banks offer low-interest loans or credit lines for adoptive parents. Borrow from family members. Borrow from a 401K. Borrow from a Life Insurance Policy. Contact Airlines requesting a reduced rate or waive of fees to get your child.

Raise money through church and community support:

Car Washes, Raffles, Neighborhood Yard Sales, School Projects, Bake Sales, Collections at Local Grocery Stores, Collections through job.

Norman Hecht

Banker Norman Hecht, who is also an adoptive parent, has written an article for Adoptive Families Magazine on working to meet adoption expenses. You can request a free reprint from Adoptive Families of America by calling: 1-800-372-3300. www.adoptivefam.org

Hebrew Free Loan Association

Jewish families may apply for interest free loans to Jewish adults who wish to adopt domestically or internationally. www.hflasf.org/adopt-loans.html

Laundry Money

All that change and crinkled up dollar bills that get tossed in the hamper can go into a child's fund. Maybe it's the money that will buy clothing for your new child to travel home in, or the gifts you wish to give once you arrive at the orphanage. Maybe the money could buy the bedding for your kid's new room. Think of the potential. Plan to put a family portion aside every time you spend: What would your child have had for dinner? (Eating out). His/her portion gets paid for in the child's fund.

AdoptNet

www.adoptnet.org. Support groups, adoption tax credits, financial adoption assistance.

Topeka Community Foundation

A fund has been established with the Topeka Community Foundation that will provide financial assistance to individuals and couples desiring to complete domestic and international adoptions. Kansas residents or those persons with Kansas ties will be given first preference. For additional information and to obtain an application for assistance, call (785) 272-4804 or contact the foundation at tcf@cjnetworks.com.

Methodist Church in Nebraska

Methodist Church in NE has a fund for supporting families adopting from Russia. This fund helps to defray travel costs. Contact Keith Hewitt at (847) 664-2240.

Federal Government

If you are in the process of adopting, the Federal government has provided for a maximum $2000 reimbursement to assist in the adoption of special needs
children. (Children who have been abandoned/orphaned qualify as special needs in most states, and most orphanage kids have diagnoses that would qualify them even in the states that don't blanket accept "abandonment") This reimbursement is an actual check, and is used to offset the cost of home studies, attorney fees, travel for the child, etc.

The catch is you MUST apply for this reimbursement before you adopt. Once you have adopted your child, you are not eligible for their reimbursement or subsidies.

For more info, call (800) 470-6665 or email: info@nacac.org

http://www.nacac.org/subsidyfactsheets/internationaladoption.html

http://www.nacac.org/subsidy_stateprofiles.html

NEW ADOPTION FINANCING PROGRAM

AdoptionFinancing.com is now offering a brand new adoption financing program. Fill out the application at AdoptionFinancing.com and they will work with their network of more than 30 different lenders to find the right financing for your needs.

52 NEW COUNTRY-SPECIFIC INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION WEBSITES

Adoption.com and Adopting.org have launched a new website for nearly every country with an active international adoption program. Each website features many country-specific resources related to adoption, travel, tourism, history, waiting children, adoption agencies, translators, currency converters, weather, news, maps, message boards, books, and dozens of other links to resources. You can find links to all of these new websites at InternationalAdoption.org, or visit some of the most popular countries: http://China.Adoption.com, http://Russia.Adoption.com, http://Guatemala.Adoption.com, http://Romania.Adoption.com, http://Kazakhstan.Adoption.com, or http://Vietnam.Adoption.com

Adoption Network

http://adoption-network.com

Love Knows No Borders

(203) 459-4575. Gives grants for international adoptions

Shaohannah's Hope

www.ShaohannahsHope.org. For more information about adoption assistance, please call Shaohannah's Hope toll-free at (800) 784-5361 or e-mail at: sccmusic@stevencurtischapman.com.

1st Steps Project Oz Fund

1st Steps Project Oz Fund is administered by 1st Steps for assistance with special needs adoptions.

(570) 226-4448 or 1-866-kids4us

Email: Adopt@Kids4us.org

Acres of Hope

This is a non-profit charitable foundation dedicated to providing educational information, emotional support, parent-to-parent support, advocacy services, financial assistance, and a loan program of items helpful to families dealing with children of physical and emotional challenges. In addition, their mission is to promote greater community understanding, acceptance, and support for families involved in adopting special needs children cross-racially and cross-culturally.

Contact:

Acres of Hope, Inc.

Patty Anglin

Executive Director

Route 1 Box 97

Mason, WI 54856

Phone: (715) 765-4118

Fax: (715) 765-4119

Email: thenest@cheqnet.net

www.acresofhope.com/foundation.htm

Adoption Subsidy

Children with special needs may qualify for an adoption subsidy which is paid to adoptive families to help them pay for their child's need for ongoing therapies or treatment. Adoption subsidy agreements must be negotiated with the placing agency before the child's adoption is finalized.

For more information contact the North American Council for Adoptable Children at www.nacac.org/adoptionsubsidy.html

Non-Recurring Adoption Expense Reimbursement

After families have finalized the adoption of a child with special needs from the public child welfare system, they may be able to apply for reimbursement of expenses they paid related to the adoption, which may include home study fees, travel expenses to meet the child, attorney fees, etc. Each state sets a maximum cap which cannot exceed $2,000 per adoption.

Alla Adoption Agency

Alla Adoption in conjunction with Yunona Orphan Relief Fund are offering grants for qualified families toward international adoption using our service. Grants are: $2000 per one child, $4000 for two children. Please send us a letter explaining your hardship and any other details you consider important. Your request will be given consideration and you will be notified about our decision shortly.

Please send requests to:

AllaAdoption

Attn. Grant Request

3581 W. Benjamin Holt Drive #166

Stockton, CA 95219

www.allaadoption.com/index.htm

Americans Adopting Orphans

Each quarter the Board of Advisors will meet to recommend that individual families receive grants to help them with their adoption. www.orphans.com

Americans Adopting Orphans

12345 Lake City Way NE #2001

Seattle, WA 98125

Home Office Phone: (206) 52-4-KIDS (5437)

FAX: (206)527-2001

or....

Americans Adopting Orphans

9999 Manchester Road #369

St. Louis, MO 63122-1927

Branch Office Phone: (314) 963-7100

aao@orphans.com

China Care Foundation

Financial Aid for Adopting Families: Many adopting families cannot afford the $16-20,000 cost of adoption. China Care is trying to alleviate this burden through loans and grants. They are especially interested in helping families who are adopting special needs children. Many mildly disabled children, such as with cleft lip and clubfoot, can be made healthy through surgery and lead completely normal lives in American families.

In order to encourage the adoption and care for orphans from China, the China Care Foundation:

**Provides financial aid in the form of grants or loans for the adoption and/or medical treatment of orphans. Many families can afford to take wonderful care of their children, but cannot afford the one-time cost of adoption.

Contact Information:

http://chinacare.org/adoptions.html

Greenwich Ave. Post Office

P.O. Box 142

Greenwich, CT,06807

Tel: 203.861.6395

Fax: 203.618.0470

Ours By Grace

Ours by Grace was started by an adoptive mom to help soften the financial burden that adoption often causes families. They do fundraisers to raise a pool of money and once that pool reaches $500 they award a grant to a family whose application is on hand.

A $15 application fee is required and all money goes towards the grant fund.

www.oursbygrace.com/apply.html

Ours By Grace

225 N. Third Street

Brighton, MI 48116

Siblings Adoption Grants

Siblings Adoption Agency offers grants for qualified families toward international adoption. Grants are as follows: $2000 per one child, $4000 for two children. Please send us a letter explaining why it is a hardship for you. Your request will be given closest consideration and you will be notified about their decision shortly. www.siblingsadoption.com/welcome.htm

Grant Request Form - www.siblingsadoption.com/grantrequest.htm

Or send request to:

Siblings Adoption

*Attn. Grant Request

508 High Point Drive

Golden CO 80403

Phone: (303)216-9009

info@siblingsadoption.com

The International Adoption Center

www.adoptlaw.org/tiac_htm/7specpro.htm

The International Adoption Center provides adoption grants to qualifying families for their adoption programs up to a maximum of $1,000 per couple. A submission letter of financial need with supporting documents is required for consideration.

Contact:

International Adoption Center

7401 Old York Road

Elkins Park, PA 19027

Phone: (215) 782-1191 Fax: 215.782.1193

Email: info@adoptlaw.org

Adoption Friendly Workplace

The National Adoption Center has conducted surveys of public and private employers throughout the United States to compile a list of employers that offer adoption benefits. http://www.adoptionfriendlyworkplace.org/employers.asp

A Child's Desire

A Child's Desire, Inc. is a 501 c(3) children's charity. A Child's Desire offers adoption grants to children waiting over a year in an orphanage for a family to choose them. More information can be found at www.aChildsDesire.org

20 January 2008

Glossary of a few terms

Uh oh looks like I am getting into the world of TLA's and FLA's (Three & Four Letter Acronym and Five Letter Acronym).  The Following list also comes from CARA.  You will find that the key acronyms are NOC & NRI.  There is another one buy that is mainly found in the US: PAP. The first time I saw my mind threw in the follow adjective, smear, and I thought man this make no sense at all.  PAP in this context is Prospective Adoptive Parent.

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GLOSSARY OF TERMS

Adoption Coordinating Agency (ACA):

ACA is an agency in a state/region set up for the promotion of In-country Adoption through co-ordination of its member agencies, and recognized by CARA and to issue clearance certificate for a child to be placed in inter-country adoption.

Adoption Scrutinising Agency (ASA):

An independent Social/Child Welfare Agency appointed by the Court for scrutinizing adoption applications for In-country and Inter-country Adoptions.

Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA):

An autonomous body functioning under Ministry of Social Justice & Empowerment to act as a Central Authority in the matter of adoptions.

Central Authority (CA):

As defined under Hague Convention on Inter-country Adoption-1993.

Child Study Report (CSR):

It will contain details about the child, its date of birth, social background etc.

Child Welfare Committee (CWC):

A Committee as defined in JJ Act-2000 to deal with children in need of care & protection.

Clearance Certificate (CC):

A certificate issued by ACA permitting the RIPA to place a child in Inter-country Adoption. Clearance Certificate is required in case of all adoptions placed with foreigners and PIO.

Enlisted Foreign Adoption Agency (EFAA):

A Foreign Social/Child Welfare Agency that is enlisted by CARA for sponsoring the application of Prospective Foreign Adoptive Parents/NRI for Inter-Country Adoption of an Indian child.

FPAP:

Foreign Prospective Adoptive Parents.

G.A.W.A.:

Guardian and Wards Act, 1890

H.A.M.A:

Hindu Adoption and Maintenance Act, 1956

Home Study Report (HSR):

It contains details of the adoptive family/Couple’s Social Status & family background; Description of Home; Standard of Living; Relationship; Health details; Economic Status etc.

In-Country Adoption (IA):

Adoption of an Indian child by Indian parents residing in India.

Inter-country Adoption (ICA):

Legal placement of an Indian child with a prospective NRI, PIO parents and foreign nationals.

JJ Act-2000:

Juvenile Justice (Care & Protection of Children) Act-2000

Licensed Adoption Placement Agency for In-Country Adoption (LAPA):

An Indian Social/Child Welfare Agency licensed/recognized by the State Government for In-country Adoption.

No Objection Certificate (NOC):

A Certificate issued by CARA permitting the child to be placed with a prospective adoptive parents for Inter-country adoption.

NRI:

Non-Resident Indian/Indians (holding Indian Passport).

Physical Examination Report (PER):

It will contain medical report of the child, report of hospitalization if any etc.

PIO:

Persons of Indian Origin.

Recognized Indian Placement Agency for Inter-country Adoption (RIPA):

An Indian Social/ Child Welfare Agency recognized by CARA for placement of Indian Children in Inter Country Adoption.

Not So Easy Steps

You would hope that the agency you choose is infinitely knowledgeable of the laws, rules and procedures of the country that you decide to adopt from. For our peace of mind we checked into the India government web site for adoption.< Now this can get tricky because most places are set up for residents of their own country adopting. After all sitting here it sounds odd that the US would be having their abandoned and needing children up for adoption by prospective parents in Chile or New Zealand. Not saying that it cant' happen. From the India side this is what steps are required by foreigners.

Note on Step 1 bullet 3. They are asking that all of your documents be notarised and then those notaries to be "attested" to, here come that word again – apostille. I will get to this in good time but not yet.

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Central Adoption Resource Agency

Ministry of Women & Child Development

West Block 8, Wing 2, 2nd Floor

R.K. Puram, New Delhi-110066 (India)

PROCEDURE FOR INTER-COUNTRY ADOPTION

The Supreme Court of India has laid down that every application from a foreigner/NRI/PIO (as applicable) desiring to adopt a child must be sponsored by a social or child welfare agency recognised or licensed by the Government or a Department of the Foreign Govt. to sponsor such cases in the country in which the foreigner is resident. The foreign agency should also be an agency ‘authorised’ by CARA, Ministry of Social Justice & Empowerment, Govt. of India. No application by a foreigner/NRI/PIO for taking a child in adoption should be entertained directly by any social or child welfare agency in India.

Criteria for Foreign Prospective Adoptive Parent/s (FPAP):

· Married couple with 5 years of a stable relationship, age, financial and health status with reasonable income to support the child should be evident in the Home Study Report.

· Prospective adoptive parents having composite age of 90 years or less can adopt infants and young children. These provisions may be suitably relaxed in exceptional cases, such as older children and children with special needs, for reasons clearly stated in the Home Study Report. However, in no case should the age of any one of the prospective adoptive parents exceed 55 years.

· Single persons (never married, widowed, divorced) up to 45 years can also adopt.

· Age difference of the single adoptive parent and child should be 21 years or more.

· A FPAP in no case should be less than 30 years and more than 55 years.

· A second adoption from India will be considered only when the legal adoption of the first child is completed.

· Same sex couples are not eligible to adopt.

The following procedures will be followed in all cases of inter-country adoptions:

Step I) Enlisted Foreign Adoption Agency (EFAA)

· The applicants will have to contact or register with an Enlisted Foreign Adoption Agency (EFAA)/Central Authority/Govt. Deptt. in their country, in which they are resident, which will prepare the Home Study Report (HSR) etc. The validity of “Home Study Report” will be for a period of two years. HSR report prepared before two years will be updated at referral.

· The applicants should obtain the permission of the competent authority for adopting a child from India. Where such Central Authorities or Government departments are not available, then the applications may be sent by the enlisted agency with requisite documents including documentary proof that the applicant is permitted to adopt from India

· The adoption application dossier should contain all documents prescribed in Annexure-2. All documents are to be notarized. The signature of the notary is either to be attested by the Indian Embassy/High Commission or the appropriate Govt. Department of the receiving country. If the documents are in any language other than English, then the originals must be accompanied by attested translations

· A copy of the application of the prospective adoptive parents along with the copies of the HSR and other documents will have to be forwarded to RIPA by the Enlisted Foreign Adoption Agency (EFAA) or Central Authority of that country.

Step II) Role of Recognised Indian Placement Agency (RIPA)

· On receipt of the documents, the Indian Agency will make efforts to match a child who is legally free for inter-country adoption with the applicant.

· In case no suitable match is possible within 3 months, the RIPA will inform the EFAA and CARA with the reasons therefore.

Step III) Child being declared free for inter-country adoption - Clearance by ACA

· Before a RIPA proposes to place a child in the Inter country adoption, it must apply to the ACA for assistance for Indian placement.

· The child should be legally free for adoption. ACA will find a suitable Indian prospective adoptive parent within 30 days, failing which it will issue clearance certificate for inter-country adoption.

· ACA will issue clearance for inter-country adoption within 10 days in case of older children above 6 years, siblings or twins and Special Needs Children as per the additional guidelines issued in this regard.

· In case the ACA cannot find suitable Indian parent/parents within 30 days, it will be incumbent upon the ACA to issue a Clearance Certificate on the 31st day.

· If ACA Clearance is not given on 31st day, the clearance of ACA will be assumed unless ACA has sought clarification within the stipulation period of 30 days.

· NRI parent(s) (at least one parent) HOLDING Indian Passport will be exempted from ACA Clearance, but they have to follow all other procedures as per the Guidelines.

Step IV) Matching of the Child Study Report with Home Study Report of FPAP by RIPA

· After a successful matching, the RIPA will forward the complete dossier as per Annexure 3 to CARA for issuance of “No Objection Certificate”.

Step V) Issue of No Objection Certificate (NOC) by CARA

· RIPA shall make application for CARA NOC in case of foreign/PIO parents only after ACA Clearance Certificate is obtained.

· CARA will issue the ‘NOC’ within 15 days from the date of receipt of the adoption dossier if complete in all respect.

· If any query or clarification is sought by CARA, it will be replied to by the RIPA within 10 days.

· No Indian Placement Agency can file an application in the competent court for inter-country adoption without a “No Objection Certificate” from CARA.

Step VI) Filing of Petition in the Court

· On receipt of the NOC from CARA, the RIPA shall file a petition for adoption/guardianship in the competent court within 15 days.

· The competent court may issue an appropriate order for the placement of the child with FPAP.

· As per the Hon’ble Supreme Court directions, the concerned Court may dispose the case within 2 months.

Step VII) Passport and Visa

· RIPA has to apply in the Regional Passport Office for obtaining an Indian Passport in favour of the child.

· The concerned Regional Passport Officer may issue the Passport within 10 days.

· Thereafter the VISA entry permit may be issued by the Consulate/Embassy/High Commission of the concerned country for the child.

Step VIII) Child travels to adoptive country

· The adoptive parent/parents will have to come to India and accompany the child back to their country.

19 January 2008

Three Easy Steps To International Adoption

1. Choose your agency

2. Get an International Homestudy. This must be a licensed homestudy agency.

3. Get immigration approval from USCIS (US Customs & Immigration Service)

Sounds easy huh?

It is, if you keep a good sense of humour because some of the things you will be required to get notarized & apostilled (more on that too) are downright insane. Hey if it will help me adopt then how high do you want me to jump. By the way it is best to do each step one at a time. You could number 2 & 3 together but it can get a bit hectic because number 3 has a time limit on it and if you dilly-dally getting number 2 accomplished then you have wasted a grip of dough.

Resources we researched

In 2004 we started looking at Domestic Adoption

Here are some links that we used:

http://dcfs.co.la.ca.us California Department of Children & Family Services

http://www.nefe.org/ National Endowment for Financial Education search for adoption

http://www.adopt.org/ National Adoption Organization

http://www.cacfs.org/ California Alliance of Child and Family Services hit the links on this site

http://www.babycenter.com/ again search the word adoption

http://www.hfs.org/ Holy Family Services Adoption & Foster Care

In April 2006 we started hitting for International INDIA adoption

I highly recommend spending some time on this first site. It is not a complete list but it is a very good starting point. In May 2007 the links after the first one were contacted by one method or another – phone, email, visit if local. A comment about Dillon. Although we did not use them they are one of the few agencies that listed on their site names and email addresses of clients that have adopted. This is very rare and in my book shows integrity. Some agencies are reluctant to do this. They get high marks for doing it and the families get high marks for saying yes this is an agency that we would recommend. Another agency was International family Services who were willing to spend time talking and answering our questions without any $$. Some agencies won't talk without some payola. yeah we are taking their time but then again we are making a life changing investment and this is something that you want to do fully armed with information. Nothing worse than getting part way into the process and then deciding the agency you choose is really not working for you. o they too get very high marks in our book.

Other than the first site these are listed in no particular order

http://www.myadoptionlinks.com/

http://travel.state.gov/family/adoption/info/info_457.html US Dept of State

http://www.dillonadopt.com/

http://www.lovebasket.org

http://www.childrenshopeint.org

http://www.wacap.org

http://www.ifservices.org/

http://www.baljagat.org

http://www.ichild.org

http://india.adoption.com

http://www.ftia.org/india a link has Hindi phrases which may help

http://www.adoptionfriendlyworkplace.org lists where you should be working

http://www.adoptionattorneys.org domestic/international this is the professional org in DC

http://www.angelfire.com/journal/adoptionhelp/adopthelp.html

Choosing Your Agency

When we first started along the adoption path we needed to find an agency.  In fact we actually started looking in our own backyard.  We thought adopt a child from the Los Angles area.  My work actually had recommendations of several agencies.  Our community fund had lists of agencies that the employees had supported. and there were employees at the company who have adopted, my senior manger among them.

First Shock

Open or closed.  In an open adoption or semi open the birth mother/father actually pick you based on a portfolio that you put together.  Wooh, back up a minute.  You mean the birth parent/s choose you.  Uh no thanks.  Even better yet on some adoptions the parents may even have post adoption contact. That did not suit our needs so we said no thanks.  Oh it got better,  on the open adoption the birth mothers had a tendency to either look for the high income family or families that were , humm shall we say close to their peerage.

Second Eye Opener

Stay away from agencies that won't disclose.  We quickly wrote off agencies that wanted $$ up front to either talk to us or give us information.  I got really frustrated when one company, local big charity organization started by a well known celebrity (now deceased) could not give basic statistics.  Such as:

What are the age range of your couples that you placed children?

How many children did you place in the last year, last 5 years? 

What is the average wait time after the dossier is completed? 

How many dossiers are open – this one is important if it is a first come first served.

County

County was an option.  However, we found that at the time we were looking, that prospective couples were being strongly encouraged to first foster and then adopt.  We didn't want to go the foster route as we felt that each child needs a stable environment and getting shuffled from one foster family to another is just plain cruel and we did not want to be a part of that.  Another reason is getting attached to a child and then having the county place that child with a family that would adopt.  Sorry our emotions have already been through the ringer.

Out of State

So we don't like the county system how about other California locales, hey Santa Barbara has a large college population.  Looking into other agencies and even going out of state we determine, that for us we might as well go out of country.  It is our strong desire that the birth parents not be in the child's life during their formative years.  I am all for giving as much information and helping them make contact later, such as after they have finished high school.  Our child/children will know they are adopted but they will not know the details of the bio matter.  Looking at cost, foreign adoption could be a viable route.

Go Foreign

India is chosen, actually the wife (Hellooooo Nurse, HN) wanted Sri Lanka.  I look into that slightly unstable country on the south end of India, do a bit of research and determine that there are very few US agencies that have capability to adopt from the island state.  How about the mainland India.  Time for some geography as the wife thinks we can travel the length of India in a day.  yah by jet but not by car.  Do you want North India, South, East, West?  Just like the US there are many geopolitical and graphical cultural differences in this large up and coming country.  Luckily she says girl, lower caste.  Ah, right answer.  She may experience some prejudices here in the states but she will not be subjected to the caste system.  Works for me.

When Adoption is Not Adoption

India does not recognize the concept of adoption.  So when the Indian courts grants you custody of a child you are granted that.  Permanent custody.  Once you are back in the states you then have to jump thorough the hoops here in our courts system to finalize the adoption.  Yep,  we belong to the school of hard knocks.  No reason to take the easy route here.

For You Impossible

Hey look at this, there is an agency that brokers India adoptions in Long Beach.  Cool.  So HN calls.  As she puts it, they lady on the other end sounds like she just got off the plane.  Yes, you want to adopt from India?  Are you from India? No?  Oh.. Please wait.  Another lady comes on the phone.  Yes miss, I hear you want to adopt from India.  Are you from India? No? Oh, is your husband from India? Mo, Oh, well that will be very hard indeed.  Oh? How hard?  For you ma'am IMPOSSIBLE.  The HN says "Oh you do not know the God I serve and he is in the impossible business.  thank you for your time and honesty"

We learn that India prefers to grant custody of their children to citizens who are of Indian descent.  As HN often tells me it is not what you say but how you say it that matters.  The lady on the other end of the line didn't know how to say it. I wonder what they would have said if HN had an English clip?

One Door Shut, a Window Opened

It was an emotional setback but hey this adoption thing is turning out to be an emotional roller coaster.  Not a real setback because there are many other agencies to look into, they would have been convenient.  At this point I am kinda hanging back waiting for HN to settle in on an agency.  Looking at  the cost of one over another (yeah this is another thing that some agencies are not willing to share until you have already plunked down some dough) they are all about the same.  Some agencies has milestones for parting you with your money.  The first is in the applicantion/contract and the second chink happens after you have accepted a child.  Part of the $$ goes to the agency and a lions share is destined for the orphanage.  HN settles down on three and of course none of them are in our state.  This poses a bit of a heartache for me.  Hey, I want to meet these folks that are going to be sucking away my stash that we have saved up for a rainy day/house expansion/world tour.  HN starts talking to one individual both on the phone and through email quite extensively.  She (the Adoption Agency rep) even starts to send us questions we should be asking our prospective agency, a list of financial resources (I will post this soon), and answering some questions that I thought the agency would be hesitant to discuss.  Wow, we are almost getting full disclosure all we have to do is keep asking questions.  I ask HN where this person is located, Missouri.  Cool, not as close as I would like.  Will she be the one we are working with?  No, the India rep is in Michigan.  Humm where is the home office, Texas.  Ah so they have more than one location, yep.  Anyone in California?  Not really but members of the agency are moving to central California but hey will be telecommuting to the home office.  Ah so there is no Brick and Mortar here.  Nope.  Here is the big question.  Do you trust them?  I'm thinking used car salesman here.  HN says yes, they have been more than helpful knowing full well we may be just pumping for information and not sign up with them.  We are talking contracts here, financial consequences for not completing the deal (forfeiture of funds sent) and most importantly possibly a life long relationship.  This last point was important for me.  Depending on the agency your communication can be the length of the adoption process or longer.  I am in it for the long haul and want someone that will follow our post adoption for at least 7 years.  I know we are going to have questions about emotional issues and behaviour patterns and we need to know that we can contact them after our contract has concluded.

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